Hi All,
Hope some one out there will be able to help or point in my a great direction for help.
My 29yr old niece contacted malaria after being a student in Ghana, about 6/7 years ago. Yes, she was on precaution medicine. She also was under extreme stress due to the fact that her friends were being raped and she herself was frighten of it happening to her. I finally talked her into leaving before the school year was up. It was not worth her being raped.
I think one reason her and some of friends still caught malaria, despite taking precaution, was due to this stress plus lack of clean water.
So now she has malaria...which flares(fever, fatigue) than settles down.
Her father, my brother, had autoimmune disease(s)...they think possibly sarcoidosis but i once found a disease (auto immune that fit all his symptoms to a T)...i cannot locate it again.
He, like me, was sick all his life. But compared to my brother i felt i was healthy lol! So far neither of his daughters show any auto immune problems...though the same one with malaria had complained of pain in her legs ..muscle and joint off and on since high school.
Right now...she is working in a job for well known company as medical advisor. They have doctors on site, as well as RN's and people to do many common tests,xray blood etc.
I was just told by her sister that she works from 6am till midnight most days. Once at home...since this is world wide company she often is working from home as well. The house they bought is a fixer upper and she has been without a kitchen that works well for 2yrs now.
My question is...has anyone known anyone with autoimmune diseases and malaria? Because now not only did her dad have auto immune illness so bad he died(age34) when she was 5, but her uncle has scleroderma for last 5 years. He has it bad enough...still working but only pt last few years..he is my age mid fifties.
I am worried that with her working that many hours she is going to push her body right into some auto immune disease.
Plus...just wonder if marlaria has been known to act as trigger? Or does anyone just know more than basic stuff i am reading online about malaria...off shoots of it etc.
She has told me that she does get tired and fevers come on...which is similar to many auto immune diseases i am afraid she will just blame it on malaria.
Also..she saw me go from full time in job i loved to part time and now her uncle...we were like favorite aunt and uncle on either side....i took over helping to raise them on my days off since their mom went back to work after my brother died. So been very close to point i look at her often like she is my child.
She told me she is trying to get the respect like i got ...i was able to go part time with full benefits.
I am afraid she is going to make herself sick..never in my life could i work those many hours period! I think that is good sign....but i am afraid she is going to just have one stress factor enter...like grandparents passing....and that will be enough to send her body into clicking that gene on..to an autoimmune disease.
i know they still have not quite proven it is genetics but really looks that way.
Do aYou think i am just over worrying? Does anyone know anyone that has had malaria for long time and how are hey doing? Did anything else piggyback onto it like how with lupus we often get fibro or RA etc.
Or does anyone know of someone with malaria that did get auto immune diseases?
If you think i am over worrying for nothing...tell me.
One last thing...her fiance' (getting married end of june) has psoriatic arthritis...and he was 1st person since my brother that has to have his esophagus enlarged regularly so he does not choke on his food. He just found out he had PsA 2yrs ago. He is also doing research on finding a cure for Lupus and other autoimmune diseases...very brilliant, nice young man...but worry when they try to have children. SInce i kept miscarrying . She really wants 1 baby of her own than adopt..so guess she could adopt. lol..that is last of my worries about her.
I appreciate any imput...i know this is kind of weird off the collar request. But since i found out that she is working that many hours on regular basis, it has me worried.
Yes..i know it is illegal...she is manager but still they cannot work people around the clock ! Plus who she works for...is known for being such a great place to work for!! So this is really surprising that they push her so hard..also make great story!lol
Well thanks for any help ....much appreciated.