i am only 25 and feel the same way sometimes even a trip to Walmart my husband tells me to use the electronic chair but i feel it makes me feel weak if i use it and i guess is it our stubbornness maybe, but i feel if we aren't stubborn then we would not be doing as we are not its a struggle to get out of bed for me but i also work full time and i have some kidney issues but luckily they are not failing yet, but i think we need to be stubborn maybe not as much as i am but i know exactly how you feel all the time i go threw this almost any trio to any store even if is just an hour or sometimes less