Hi Janice, Thankyou for your reply. Yes it is odd we both have the same thing at the same time, but then again we do have alot of the same things that go with Lupus. I am pleased you have contacted your doctor, good idea. If mine isnt any better in the next couple of days i will do the same. I find going to the doctors such an expedition now. I do need to get an appoimtment though because of my scalp which again is driving me crazy, i will look out the cream that the doctor gave me last time, i do think though its going to have to be a course of antibiotics, like the last time. I dread taking antibiotics, you know what its like, they always make people like us with auto immune diseases end up feeling alot worse.
What a good idea! We should make an album, i have a few awful photos i would be able to post, i hate them if you know what i mean. Its good to keep records though, as when we see the Rheumy's and they ask how we have been, and we explain what we had, and they ask what was that like, then at least we have some photos to show them. My Rheumy has kept a few of the photos i have shown him.
I totally understand about you not being able to sit up at the computer for very long. If it wasnt for how i have my laptop set up by the bed i wouldnt be able to do this. I think it would be a good idea also if i got my husband to take a photo of how i manage to use the laptop, just for other peoples interest. As i cannot sit up straight, i have to slightly be leaning when i sit, or it kills me with pain. If my computer plays up, and i have to use Dave's, then trying to sit in his chair to type is agony, and i am like you i really cant sit there for very long, as it makes me really ache and the pain sets in. Its the same if i go out anywhere and i need to sit and have a drink in a cafe, i have to make sure i find one with chairs that arent totally hard and arent those where you have to sit bolt upright. I have all the places mapped out in town where its okay for me. Is there anyway you can find a chair or something that would help you be more comfortable at all. I am always trying to find solutions for myself when i am struggling, its not easy though. Anyway my dear friend i am so sorry to hear you are suffering so much. I am thinking of you, and praying for you as well. Some days, or rather most days really i look at myself and think my goodness you are a mess. Its not easy is it, we have changed so much from say just ten years ago. I have photos of myself where i havent looked too bad compared to how i look now. If and when i go out, i always try and make myself look presentable. I have notice even just after the last few weeks i have loads more grey hairs, its the stress i think, hehe. And of course i cant put a colour on my hair due to the fact my head has these awful sore things. It makes me feel like giving up on things sometimes, i expect you feel the same. Ah, well, i have to stay positive, things will get better, i always tell myself that, and i know how lucky i am in comparison with a lot of people. Anyway my friend i wont waffle on any longer, take care, hope you have abit of a better day today, thinking of you, prayers, love and hugs Astrid40xoxox