# I miss you guys
**URL:** https://forum.lifewithlupus.org/t/i-miss-you-guys/1361
**Category:** General
**Created:** [March 19, 2013, 8:56pm UTC](https://forum.lifewithlupus.org/t/i-miss-you-guys/1361 "2013-03-19T20:56:00Z")
**Posts on this page:** 3
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### Author:  [@Taesra](https://forum.lifewithlupus.org/u/Taesra)
#### Post date: [March 19, 2013, 8:56pm UTC](https://forum.lifewithlupus.org/t/i-miss-you-guys/1361/1 "2013-03-19T20:56:00Z")
hey guys. sorry I've been gone. My 3 year old had surgery then My grandma collapsed and had a pacemaker put in followed by My now 2 year old as of Saturday was hospitalized for 4 days. all of that stress has thrown me into one hell of a flare. I'm having problems with pain and I've pain in My back/kidney/lungs for Going in three months now.I'm terrified of what's Going on with that. i go to My Lupus Dr Friday. I'm having numbness in My toes and My hands. I'm just scared My kids are So young i don't want something to happen to me
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### Author:  [@whathappensinvegas](https://forum.lifewithlupus.org/u/whathappensinvegas)
#### Post date: [March 19, 2013, 9:44pm UTC](https://forum.lifewithlupus.org/t/i-miss-you-guys/1361/2 "2013-03-19T21:44:27Z")
Taesra,
It's more important than ever that you try to avoid stress (I know, easier said than done) but we know that stress is a huge trigger. I know that you are scared, but you will be okay. We will all be praying for you.
XOXO,
DeAnne
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### Author:  [@Ballerina8876](https://forum.lifewithlupus.org/u/Ballerina8876)
#### Post date: [March 19, 2013, 9:59pm UTC](https://forum.lifewithlupus.org/t/i-miss-you-guys/1361/3 "2013-03-19T21:59:23Z")
Sorry you've had so much happen. Try to relax--take a hot bath, drink some tea, read a good book, etc. Praying for you and your family!