I know what you mean about the" perfect housekeeper". I can't do it anymore and have learned not to care, I do what I can and my hubby is really great. He'll do the dishes(put them in the dishwasher) after dinner. He will also do laundry and dry mop the floors. My house isn't messy but there may be dust in the corners. I've been drinking a lot of orange juice lately and I seem to have a little more energy, crazy, HUH.
Take care everyone
Cindy