It's all about pacing yourself and i hope they try and diagnose you soon...to get good help regarding meds. :)
I have 'Probable Lupus' and FM. I have 2 young children and a baby and find it impossible. My husband has been off work for 8 mths to look after me and the children. I can't stay awake for more than 2 hrs and sleep about 16 - 18 hrs a day. I can't pick up the baby as I have no strength. Can't walk to the end of my road......it's a living nightmare.
GOOD LUCK WITH WORK AND REMEMBER TO PACE YOURSELF!